Encouraging Children to Help With Chores

As a homemaker, I face the daily task of  keeping the home; and also teaching my children the value and joy of helping keep home. But, it has not always been easy to encourage them to help. Along the road, I have learned a few tricks that have helped them along with wanting to help out with cheerful hearts.

Encouraging Children to Help With Chores at Homemakers Challenge

How to Encourage Children to Help With Chores:

1. When teaching you child a new chore, or when trying to encourage them to do their chores well, it is important to keep a positive attitude and paint the picture of the result that their hard work will bring about.
2. When they are young, they tend to be more eager to help. Let them, even if it means you’ll have to mop up a little extra water from the floor. Say thank you often and let them know how helpful they are being.
3. Put on some fun music while doing chores. I know I clean and do my chores with such a better attitude when music is playing in the background.
4. Don’t overload them with chores. The older kids are, the more they are able to do. But that should not mean they are the ones doing everything. This could lead to complete disinterest in helping out, which will make chores a stressful time in your home.

 

IMG_0259

 

Something else I love to do after we finish our chores is to treat ourselves to something. My kids like board games so we play something like Uno Headbanz and it makes for so much fun. I also like to encourage them to stop and look at what their hard work produced. They really enjoy seeing the fruit of their labor and seeing how they too can help create a clean and organized space in their home.
My youngest is too young to do chores but my other two kids are fully able to.

Here is a list of chores my children assist with:

Some are done daily, and others weekly as needed:

Chores for my 3 (almost 4 year old)-

  • Pick up toys
  • Put dirty clothes in laundry baskets
  • Bring laundry baskets to the laundry room
  • Wipe down coffee tables
  • Fold towels
  • Help unload dishwasher (except for sharp objects)

Chores for my 11 year old-

  • Dishes
  • Laundry (from loading the washer to folding and putting away)
  • Changes own bed sheets
  • Wipe down counters and pick up kitchen
  • Vacuum and mop floors
  • Empty garbage and replace garbage bins with new bags
  • Put away groceries

For every family chores will look different. Ours have changed over the years due to moves, or seasons of life. But, I always keep the four principles in mind when dealing with chores. I want to encourage my children to be helpful and also have something to look forward to once their chores are complete. Sometimes that is simply the enjoyment of having a clean room and home to relax in, and others it having a calm and clean environment to enjoy some fun and games together in.

About Marlene Griffith

Marlene is a daughter of God in constant awe of His matchless grace, servant of Christ, wife to an amazing husband and mommy to three blessings. She spends her days taking care of her three kiddos and homeschooling them. Marlene enjoys crafting, cooking, baking and a good chick flick. When she’s not homeschooling or taking care of her home, she is blogging over at A Diligent Heart. She loves the Lord and is passionate about living life diligently for Him in everything she does.

Can a Homemaker’s Organization Go Paperless?

Whether you stay at home full time, work full time or part time, are a student, homeschool, or have projects or volunteer opportunities to manage, you have a home to run and a life (or multiple peoples’ lives) to manage on top of everything else. Part of a homemaker’s job is information management, project management, and people management. Having one central place to collect the information and lists you need is key to minimizing stress and having to think through the same scenarios over and over again.

A home management binder is a way to gather and organize all the information, ideas, and tasks that otherwise would roll around untamed in your head or uncontrolled in lists spread across the house and car. Contacts, calendars, lists, ideas, and information all need to be corralled and maintained, and a home management binder is a great way to bring it all together and stay on top of life. If you know where it is, you can find the information you need when you need it. That’s what a home management binder is all about.

But, binders can become bulky, heavy, and cluttered.

There are numerous lovely ladies out there with pictures of their beautiful paper binders. Certainly a paper-based binder can be prettier than digital version – for some people. None of the binders I ever put together looked half so nice as those I’ve seen on Pinterest. What the digital version lacks in cuteness, however, it makes up for in accessibility and versatility. Moreover, the digital version is the frugal option if you already have the tools. If you have a smartphone, a tablet, or a laptop, why not use them to their full potential? You can keep many more lists, much more information, have it all be easier to find, all while taking up less space than if you kept those papers, much less if you continued printing more and more.

Paperless Home Organization

Making a digital management system won’t make a crafty mess and, by the end of the project, will reduce or eliminate your paper clutter instead of merely containing it.

Enter Evernote. Instead of papers piled on the counter, shoved onto a desk in a back room, and crumpled in your purse, you can contain them in one easy-to-reference space. Or, even better, shred those paper piles after digitizing the information quickly and easily. Evernote is a versatile note-taking program and app. However, it is so versatile that it can be bewildering to tinker with and figure out.

Think of Evernote like a digital version of a binder, tabbed dividers, and paper. What would you do with those? What could you do with those?

Anything you wanted.

Whatever you might keep in a binder, or in a manila folder, you can keep in Evernote digitally and shred the papers. Whatever printable or form you might copy and print and fill out, you can simply keep that information in Evernote. It might not be as cute and colorful, but it will stay put, not get water spilled on it, and you can use the search feature and find whatever you’re looking for without having to remember where you “filed” it.

A paperless home management system allows you:

  • the ability to find the information you need by searching for it.
  • to expand the amount of information you save and generate without taking up any more space.
  • to shrink your paper files by digitizing and then shredding them.
  • to easily share information with your husband, grandparents, or friends.

Evernote is really like a big blank canvas, waiting for you to use it however you want. Sometimes, however, the sheer possibilities are paralyzing. Sometimes it’s easier to begin with training wheels, with a set of short instructions on how to set up the bare bones and then how to flesh it out to fit your circumstances.

Paperless Home Organization

That’s precisely what I did in Paperless Home Organization. I walk you through setting up an Evernote account and show you how you can use it as the basis for your home management “binder,” keeping your information literally at your fingertips. The best thing about Evernote is that it is a web-based app, a desktop program, a phone app, and a tablet app, and you can use one or some or all of them, and whatever you use – on any operating system – will sync. Paperless Home Organization will take you step by step through getting all your lists and information into Evernote, and also show you how to use a task management app (RememberTheMilk) and how to better utilize the features of Gmail & Google Calendar.

But, there is no “right” way to use Evernote. It is free and it is there to be used however it best serves your needs. Do you use it? What do you use it for? Have you gone paperless in your planning? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments!

About Mystie Winckler

Mystie Winckler is a wife of one, mother of five, homemaker, and home-educator. She blogs about simple cooking and menu planning at Simple Pantry Cooking and about creating and maintaining a cheerful home at Simply Convivial. She is author of Simplified Dinners and Paperless Home Organization.

DIY Accomplished- Come Link Up!

DIY Accomplished at Homemakers Challenge- Come link up every Thursday!

 

Thank you for linking up last week! Our most popular link up was from Jamie at Walking In High Cotton!

diy accomplished link up at homemakers challenge

Thanks for linking up, everyone!

 

Now, onto this week’s DIY Accomplished Link Up!

 



Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...

About Laurie

Laurie can be found most days creating in the kitchen. She has been blessed to be Toby's wife for 22 wonderful years and the Mama of 4 (aged 10-20) amazing children God has entrusted her to raise for Him. She heartily welcomes you to visit her at her blog at Our Abundant Blessings and on Facebook! This family of six makes their home on a small grass-finished beef farm, surrounded by many pets. Being together is the best part of life, making it all work and flow is a task that Laurie gladly welcomes, for she knows that the time is all too fleeting for homeschooling, and preparing her babes for life on their own.