Day 2 – Created to Give Life {31 Days to Clean}

“The man called his wife’s name Eve, because she was the mother of all living.”
~Genesis 3:20 {ESV}

What is life?

By definition:

Life is that property of plants and animals (ending at death) which makes it possible for them to take in food, get energy from it, grow, etc. {Webster’s New World Dictionary}.


As women, we are that property. We bear the same title as Eve. We are life givers. Although Eve was found guilty of sin and sentenced to physical death, just as we are, we still have the privilege of giving life – both of the physical and of the spiritual. Isn’t that amazing?

This is our higher calling.

What do you think of when you think of life?

Imagine for a second a moment full of life. Maybe it’s an experience already lived, or maybe it’s just a mere musing of your imagination. Regardless, think about it. Experience in your mind a moment full of life!

What surrounds you? What are you thinking about?  What emotions do you feel?

I must ask. Do you think of the fruit of the Spirit?

  • Love
  • Joy
  • Peace
  • Patience
  • Kindness
  • Goodness
  • Faithfulness
  • Gentleness
  • Self-Control

In some ways, I am positive that you do. The fruit of the Spirit exude life because they flow from the giver of life Himself- Jesus Christ. In His grace, He has given us, as women, the unique opportunity to reflect Him in this way. What a privilege!

How can we, as women, extend life to those around us?


In the physical, we extend life through our bodies. The woman’s body was designed to give and sustain life.

As women, we have the privilege of carrying life within our womb, as well as the ability to provide nourishment through our milk for the first several months of our babies’ lives. We are that property making it possible for our babies to take food, get energy, and grow!

In addition, our bodies, as well as our presence, are a source of comfort to our husbands and children. We were created to emulate the comfort and peace found in Christ.

Isaiah 66:13 affirms this truth:

 “As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you; you shall be comforted in Jerusalem.”

We are uniquely feminine for this purpose – to give physical life to our homes!

In the spiritual, we are the life of our home. We have the ability to bring joy, peace, and laughter to our homes that only we as women can. The old saying, “If Mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy,” is unfortunately, and yet fortunately, completely true.

We have only to look through the book of Proverbs to see this truth repeated time and time again.

Proverbs 14: 1 says,

“The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.”

Then, Proverbs 21:9 states,

“It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.”

Though our attitudes and actions have the ability to bring sadness and destruction to our homes, on the contrary, we can represent the hope that Christ extends to His children by being an encourager, example of humility, and quick to forgive.

We can change the sheets on our child’s bed – again – even though he’s been potty trained for months. We can forgive our husband – again – when he says unkind words. We can encourage our children with soft words when they disobey – again. We can seek out evidence of God’s grace in the every day moments so that we can build up those who walk the hallways of our homes.

As women, and life-givers, we are that property that gives our husbands and children the sustenance they need to live through our commendation of the Gospel. We can make the Gospel attractive to our husbands and children through our daily sacrifice of our time, energy, and care; thus giving life to those God has placed in our lives.

We are uniquely called to be keepers of our homes for this purpose – to give spiritual life to our homes!

So today, sweet readers, ask yourself:

Am I cultivating the seeds of life for my husband and children, or am I bringing death? Am I actively seeking to grow in the fruit of the Spirit, or am I gratifying the desires of the flesh?

These are tough, but necessary questions to ask ourselves, as we seek to emulate Christ to our husbands and children through not only our physical, but spiritual abilities to give life.

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About Leigh Ann

Leigh Ann’s life goal is to create a home where it is impossible to not think about God. At Intentional By Grace, she blogs about her journey of intentional living in order to encourage other women to walk in a manner worthy of their calling.

She is the wife of three years to the man of her prayers, Mark, and mama to a loveable little boy, Samuel (10 months). She takes joy in spending her days conducting kitchen experiments, researching every natural alternative known to man, and making her little boy laugh. She does it all by the grace of God.

You can follow her on twitter @n10tionalgrace or on Facebook.

Comments

  1. Christin says:

    I really love this, Leigh Ann! And you know what I find amazing? The power a woman really has to set the tone for her entire home. It is a true gift from God–are we using it to glorify Him or are we abusing or neglecting it? A woman’s influence can be a beautiful gift or an awful curse Just look at Delilah and Jezebel. They were examples of influence of evil, but they had large influence.
    Let us use this influence to God’s glory.
    Wonderful, wonderful thoughts here!

    • Leigh Ann says:

      Thanks, Christin!

      I once heard that the “Man may be the head of the home, but the woman is the neck. So men, choose a good neck.”

      It is so tempting to manipulate for MY good, to gear my home for MY good, to turn my husband’s neck for MY good, and so on. It is only by the grace of God that we, as women, especially me, can use our influences to give life to others and count them as more significant than ourselves. We do have a unique gift. It’s humbling to know that I use it for my good more than the good of others.

      So thankful we have Jesus! Who did all of this perfectly, and, by grace, gives us power to change and use our gifts for HIS GLORY! May we rely on this grace daily for change and motivation!

      • Christin says:

        Yes, it is too easy. But be careful not to believe in lies either. I know that every husband is different and certainly follow his lead. My husband desires certain things {such as not having folded laundry laying all over the couch when he gets home, or a floor full of toys that he can trip on}. But for the most part, he gives me free reign on how to run our home. He wants what works for me, but with those things as a priority for him.
        He really doesn’t ask much of me {unless I were to stop cooking and cleaning, lol. Then we might have a problem ;) }
        Anyways, my whole point is, if there are certain things that help you run your home smoothly, don’t feel like you’re being manipulative or selfish. Certainly use wisdom, only you know your own heart. :)
        I don’t know if that made any sense. LOL
        Thanks again for such a wonderfully heartfelt post.

  2. Donna says:

    I love how Proverbs 14:1 reads in the GNT: “Homes are made by the wisdom of women, but are destroyed by foolishness”.

  3. Kath Randolph says:

    I knew my attitude mattered in spiritual and emotional ways. Just never really thought about my attitude in not liking for instance, packing lunches, made a difference as well. If I’m truly to give life to my house I need to reflect the care that God has for me and my family in the jobs I do.

    • Christin says:

      It’s a hard balance. I worry about my attitude when I do things for my children with a sour attitude because I don’t want them to think they are a burden on me, but a blessing to me. I’m right there with you. I need to check my heart and pray for change that only the Spirit can give.
      Blessings!

  4. Brandy C. says:

    This was an absolutely beautiful post. And so very true. As I really examine things around our home … I see that the things I’m not really liking allllllllll come back to MY attitude. Ouch.

    Thanks for this very much needed reminder, Leigh Ann!

  5. Marleah says:

    Ouch. The line about changing the sheets on the bed even though the child has been potty trained for months really hits home this morning after having to do just that for my four year old at 3AM last night. Let’s just say I was less than pleased, especially when he proceeded to come into my room every 15 min for the next hour after that. Thank you for the gentle reminder that it’s moments like those when I need to be gracious and life-giving to my son instead of tearing him down for something he didn’t really have control over.

  6. Danica says:

    Wonderfully convicting post! ;) I had that “ouch” moment as I read it, but that is a good thing! If we don’t keep things in front of our eyes they soon fall out of our mind.

  7. Kayla Garcia says:

    Very inspiring! Thank you!

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